thankx ladies, yer i have found heaps of support online but was just nervous about joining a mothers group this time around in case i get the same treatment.

I'm like alot here, "technically" speaking i class young as 25 and under if i had to put an age on it. But i get along with every age and dont really think of age unless it comes up.

Nickel - thats what the Mums at my hospital were like. Cuz i was still covered on my dad health fund he paid for me to go private as his present to us. So it was a very snobby group all with Massive diamond rings and perfectly manicured nails and looking like soccer mums with their brand new holdens! and i was driving my 15yo barina and DH was coming from work in his labouring gear so you can image their faces.

This time around i am alot more prepared mentally for peoples reactions. With DS1 i was so angry at the judgement because i'd travelled, gone to uni for a year and partied all i wanted i was happy but people just presumed you hadn't 'lived' life at that age!

well thanks for all your advice girls i was just curious what everyone elses experiences were. I class myself as a younger mum but dont feel like a fit in a 'young mums' group because maturity wise im alot older.