Ash- until this morning i hadnt told Chris how much it was frustrating me but like you its driving me barmy!. It is adorable that they want to help out etc but they dont have to make us feel stupid at the same time. My recovery has been good getting better each day i dont think my stitches have fallen out yet but ive had the hair dryer on them trying to dry them out sorry TMI...., had a few moments where ive had a cry or just got pi$$ed off, i even rang SIL after Chris rang this morning so i could hear someone tell me that im stupid.