omg i would have wanted to slap him, i only yelled at chris through the phone as he was at work and then i hung up on him. Your example baby related or not is a very good example that men think because were pregnant/have a newborn that we CANT follow simple instrutctions. Yeah i'm glad to be healing well, make sure they give you mentamusil (sp) or something like it after uve had bubs as it will help with number 2's (makes them running) so its easier for you to poo until your all healed TMI again haha, the hair dryer helps ALOT if you have stitches, who knows you might be lucky and not need any stitches.