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Ali how r u going with ur PND?
Im starting 2 think about weather i should wait a long gap between TTC #2 or try when Bella starts walking?
Everyone talk 2 me about as if Bella was such a mistake because im young and think that i wouldn't dream of trying 4 another 4 a long time.
When i joke 2 mum about it she says 2 me "U better not, dont u want a life?"
I dont know im in 2 minds about it? Thought id ask u as u have had 2 at a young age.
Also can u tell me who Jade is?
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Jade is jadethebabymaker. she hasn't posted in here 4 a while coz she couldn't keep up
I am doing ok. I am going to get the implanon out and see if that makes a difference and hopefully it means AF will go away for more than 1 week at a time.
Personnally I would wait till Bella is walking because I had so much trouble with my pelvis and couldn't pick Sarah up without agonising pain so we will try for #3 when Em should be getting close to walking and Sarah can be trusted to walk next to the pram.
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Also Krissy im sorry i din't wb when u asked 2 hear my story but i got side tracked is it u who even asked me??? Sorry mummy brain!
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oh i know who jade is!!! Sorry Jade!!!Ur not 4gettable honey my mind is just not preasent at the moment!
Congratulations!!!
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Haha thanks girls!
Kass - with all due respect, don't listen to your mum. Regardless of whether Bella was an accident or not, you're doing a great job as a mum and she is making your life good/happy/whatever - the point is you feel accomplished. If you want another baby now, or in fifteen months or in five years, that is YOUR decision. Only YOU know what you and your body are capable of.
Your mum may not support your decision to have another child so quickly, but that is partly because our mummy's will always worry. "Don't you want a life?" is not a way to make that decision - for some of us, being a mum is what we want to do more than anything else.
Heck, i know i *want* to go back to uni at *some* stage. But until i know what i want to do, i'm quite content to keep making babies. I've been clucky since i was eight years old, i doubt it's going to stop now that i have a lil munchkin of my own, iykwim.
God i ramble too much.
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Thanks Ash and u dont ramble at all, that was a great help!
Many have a career and r looked up 2 4 doing so but i have never heard of someone looking up 2 a mother?
Im bloody good at what i do and very happy 2 do it 4 good The prob is ppl look at it as coz im not making money from it, im lazy or dont want 2 work or become anything. What they dont understand is that i'v become something more great then any certificate can prove or any amount of money can bring. I cant wait 4 the next person 2 ask, "so r u going 2 go back 2 full time work?"
Ill turn around and say, "Dont i already have a full time job?" Darn it i always think of really good comebacks wayyyyy 2 late hahaha
I really hope jade didn't take offence
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the earliest she will b home is 2morrow. and i doubt she would be offended
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Do u know how her birth was?
And most important the bubba's name, weight etc???
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