DP & I werent actively trying to conceive, but i wasnt on anything and we werent using protection, so bub wasnt planned but she wasnt a mistake either. DP had been living in QLD from Feb-April on his own and i joined him once i finished my apprenticeship in April so it turns out i had been here 2 weeks when i fell pregnant but didnt find out until i was 6 weeks along. We were going to discuss starting a family once i finished my apprenticeship but nature had its own idea hehe.