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Hi girls, I'm almost 21, XP and I were together for 2 years and we split just 2 weeks after our anniversary. He drives me absolutely insane!!!!! Constantly bickering at me and telling me off. He said that I'm not allowed to raise my voice when I'm frustrated, especially with El. I don't yell at her, I just get frustrated that more than half the time when I hold her, she's bucking and trying to jump out of my arms. She is now refusing bottles a lot and not wanting to eat. XP's solution is offer her 100ml bottles every 2 hours. I'd just broken that habit when she was 6 months old. Took ages and he's let her slip back into snacking. He only has uni twice a week, and atm its holidays. He works 2 nights, after she's gone to bed and one shift sunday mornings. Wednesday he delivers a million papers. So as you can see, he's home a lot and can let her do what she wants and he's able to work around her. But I can't. She needs to be having 3-4 big bottles a day, 3 good meals and 2-3 naps. But he just lets her do what she wants, and then when I come home from work (t,w,th) I have an overtired, cranky baby. Who falls asleep at 6 or 7pm but will ALWAYS wake an hour later, extremely awake and upset. WHAT THE HELL CAN I DO??? He drives me nuts. I have been the main carer of her for the last 9 months and in her 10th month, he's had her and there is no routine anymore. I can't take it. Work drives me nuts and at home I'm nuts. I need to get away from him. He offered to take her so I can go see a friend (its after 3pm, like I'd drop in that late) or see a movie but I just want to stay home. But I need him to give me space and not b!tch or nag at me. I can't always be packing her up and me for a day out just so I can be away from him. Coz then she's stuck in a stroller all day and I'm on my feet all day. I just want to bludge, play with her and do nothing for one effing day!
Vent over. Sorry girls. Going to look at a property now. I hope I get it. Then I'm free.
i hope you get a place of your own soon then you wont have XP to deal with. Good luck with the house hunting.
) and i reckon we should just have me, DH and the boys for christmas, too stressful otherwise.
and then i'll go home as we leave for Sydney Friday night i vaguely remember DP saying we were leaving at midnight....hopefully i can sleep in the car its a good 10-12hr drive
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