Heyya
Umm i think my question has totally left me lol. Sorry Im sure itll come back to me when i think of it again...but you never know haha.
Emma I hope you have a boy, but sometimes they dont happen like that but no doubt you will be able to bond and get used to the idea if it is a girl, and like Ash said, just coz your girl/boy is a girl/boy doesnt mean it HAS to do only girl/boy things. So it really cant stop your DP having a lil gaming buddy if its a girl...etc. You've got tons of support if you need it though