Wow, thanks for all that Yael. I feel like I'm taking up all of your time with all of my questions, lol.
I don't remember what site I got it from, whatever came up when I was looking for different customs in different religions.
That's really interesting about not telling anyone about the pregnancy. I don't know how you do it!! I would be so excited and wanting to tell everyone, lol. And not buying anything until after the baby is born, that would be so hard to resist.
That sounds really special about your husband opening the ark too!