Just wanted to say i wish you all the best and i hope your decision isn't too hard to make, after hearing everything im sure lots of others can add about having the fourth. Goodluck x
Thanks mate xxx

I can tell you that being one of 4 sucked, I wish i was one of 3. When we were a family of 5 I felt like there was still time for me and we still got to have holidays away and stuff, but once number four joined the family we didnt go anywhere for holidays and there was never enough individual attention for us.
Well I think being one of 3 sucked, so I guess we'll always think the grass is greener on the other side ay

And honestly I dont really know whats good or bad about having 4. I just love my kids and you just deal with the situation at hand as it arrives.
I think thats my problem. I see the fantastic little people they are and so overwhelmed with the love that I just want more and more and more!!! Even when they make me so cranky I could shoot them lol

Trillian - thank you soo much for replying - I think DH is wanting to address some of those things that you said But yes, I agree with everything that you said about 2 could cost you just as much as 4 could. And thats usually the way, if you have extra money, you usually spend it on shiat that you don't really need ... lol...
Oh - and we don't have a HUGE yard with the unit, its pretty tiny, but a few parks and stuff around town (its a small town where we are moving to)