I'm in a slightly different situation with my four, as there are large gaps in their ages and the oldest has now left home, but I just want to say that if you are even considering another, then maybe it's just meant to be I want another bub, but it is a big decision. I try and talk myself out if it, but I just won't be swayed, LOL. Hmmm, now to talk DH into it. hehehe