i am one of 5 kids, but my older sister never lived with us she lived with her Dad, so really i was the eldest of 4..
my brother (second youngest) is servearly disabled which never made things easy. But i couldnt imagine it anyother way. mum was always broke but we never went without. Being the eldest of 4 wasnt bad.. i did cop the worst of everything tho, i was the guinea pig iykwim.. like now my sisters could do the same thing that i did at their age and mum doesnt loose it quite as bad, but ah well.

my DD is only 2 and a half months and im already thinking of another one.. not yet obviously but im planning on when i do.. DH will need to be talked around coz he only wants one, but i know once she gets older and he gets a bit more of a connection (he works away and doesnt see her as often as he would like)
I say to myself that 2 will be it, but i said that one would be all for me. but if i had 3 i think that would be it, i dont want to drive a van and 4, to me, seems like alot of little lives to be responsible for.
But who knows what the future brings.