Hmm see I think this is where I am headed L&B and am a little unsure how to handle it. My dad and step mother have been together since I was 12 so pretty much most of my life. I have always had a rocky relationship with her and it has only been in the last 10 years or so that I can actually see that that is not my 'fault' for want of a better term. Obviously everyone has their side of any story but I really am the scapegoat of the family ITMS.