[QUOTE=Lulu;1917498]But don't married people rent to buy HUGE tellies too? Don't other mothers go out and have drinks too? [QUOTE]

Its got nothing to do with married/unmarried, the fact i get txts/ FB msgs from her saying she is flat broke then going and spending $40pw on a huge tv for the next 3 years ... does that not seem viable to you? (Yes, we know how much the TV costs...it is not my assumtion)

And the fact she cant afford to buy food to feed her child so we keep her at our house a few extra nights but can afford that same weekend to go on a bender...from Thursday to Saturday night drinking. We have mutual friends. This is not heresay...

Im all for her going out and blowing off steam the weekends we have DSD, go your hardest. But dont cry poor to me. Thats all im saying.

I know its got nothing to do with me, i honestly would rather stay out of it. However its her txting me and her FBing me...not contacting DP, contacting me .