Thank you all for your responses. Simone interpreted what I meant correctly. I think Kelly and Jo you are both right. There needs to be a conversation between me and DH, one where I get everything off my chest. I think the next time the kids are at their Dad's for the weekend will be the right time for that. Between now and then I will write down what my concerns are, sometimes having down on paper can keep the emotion out of it, and you can stick to the facts.

Unfortunately as you all know, pregnancy makes your emotions go on a roller coaster ride, so I'm sure that is contributing to the whole thing as well. Wish I had a crystal ball...