DH and I have always wanted 4 children and now that we have #1 makon we have said that we may not stop at 4
BUT everyone is so unsupportive and says but they will miss out on soo much and what about money and blah blah.

It really upsets me as we have both said we want a lot of children. and even his mum who had 3 says we shouldn't!
why isit that people dont want large families to be created (especially with a slowing population) we have enough space and enough love for a football team, but all we get is negative reactions when we say WE want a large family.