I agree with the old lady, you will regret not doing it, but I don't think you will regret having them. I always wanted 4 and convinced Dh to go for no.4. We are so glad we did. While we have decided that 4 is our limi, if I accidently fell pg I wouldn't care. My kids don't get everything they wnat but they get everything they need and thats more important And they have grandparents who spoil them. My house is noisy and constanty being messed up but if that is the worst thing that could happen then that id ok!
Don't listen to people who tell you what you shoudl do, they don't have to live with youand your kids, and really it doesn't effect them Sometimes people just say things to say something IYKWIM. Like to hear their own voice LOL
hugs michelle