lol Yeah the thing is I do try to stop it lol. I am wanting my DH to make the final choice and have the snip, it is his turn o provide protection and OI am on the pill and want to give my body a rest. My DH would love more but also as he is self employed and I am not working we also don't want to cripple ourselves fianlcially. I guess there are always fors and agaisnts but as long as you are true to yourself then nothing else matters.