i worry about the reverse of this. My ex has bilby each weekend, and every time she has to get dressed (pool) or go to the loo (anywhere outside home e.g shops, beach, etc), that dilemna must come up for them. He doesn't often take her to pool or beach, i suspect this is the reason why. I did buy her one of those towels you wear like a cape, to make drying her, in public, more do-able.

When bilby and i are out in public (and she needs the public loos), she is constantly saying "are you there mum"?, when i'm waiting outside her stall. Like she's scared of being left there alone. And often she has trouble, getting the paper to come out of the loo paper dispenser. She is JUST tall enough to wash her hands without help now.