i had to work alongside one of my highschool bullies for a very large portion of this year, and in the same workplace as her off and on for the past 9 or so years. i would never think her a friend, but i don't hold a grudge - actually, i CAN'T hold a grudge - it's unhealthy for ME to hold onto it. so i had to let it go. i'm glad she is now on extended leave though...

i actually feel bad for her to be honest - so many times she has said things and i've just thought "you never changed, did you?"...