I avoid seeing the mole at all costs. She seems to avoid me too! It's been 18 years, I tried really hard for 10. Now I refuse to accept her crap and she knows it. Manipulating, conniving, lying, egotistical mole. I dread any time I have to spend with her, I know it will be spent listening to her talk about how good she is. I don't even hear about how crap I am any more - apparently I don't exist. I manage to only see her about twice a year now - far too often.