We were ttc for seven years with multiple rounds of ivf before we got our sticky bfp. I had a massive sub chorionic bleed at six weeks and the pregnancy wasn't looking good. We were really hanging out to be able to finally tell our friends and family our good news when we knew whether or not the babies were viable and when I was home on bed rest as a result of the sch and missed a family party, mil told absolutely everybody that I was pregnant. Words could not describe how p!ssed I was.