Perhaps this original post would have been better being posted in the boohoo room.

I get why your peeved but I don't agree they did the wrong thing. When people accept certain behaviors, how are they to know its not right? I have friends that are just completely oblivious unless we specifically point stuff out. Even if it is staring them in the eye with lights flashing and sirens blaring.

Sorry you feel the way you do and I do hope you either find a way to make peace with the situation or change it..
Good luck hun!