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We had my parents and MIL present when DD was born. We knew she was very sick and would be transfered to RCH immediately.
I enjoyed having support from my parents, as I'm sure DH liked his mother being there (FIL came the following day). But, we had multiple people coming every day for 2 weeks.
I didn't like it at all. I wasn't up to seeing people and they wanted to see DD. So, therefore, I had to leave DD.

A baby born at 25w is a different story. I would say no. I just want to spend as much time with my little one as possible, just in case the worst happens.