Thanks for all your great answers. I am still unsure if I will say anything, I mean, we are not friends just that I see and speak to her twice a day three times a week for all of 5 minutes. I guess if the right time ever comes up I will know it and it will only be in regards to her blog not bb.

This reminded me though that when I was looking around for a forum to join I was having a look through another one and figured out I knew someone on there. I have never gone back there, Mainly because that made my choice not to join there so she could never figure out me but I just did not want to know stuff she was not willing to tell me IRL. Funny how just by a few things in a sig we can recognise someone.

I have never put anything on here that would bother me if anyone I know wanted to join but I still don't say I am member of BB. There have been times though with my friends that I have considered how BB could help them a certian times but have never said anything.

bskilner, I think you need to PM onyx.