hi chez!! so sorry i haven't replied to you in a couple of days - things always seem to be flat out - or i'm too tired - to be able to post a decent reply (lots of chatterbox ones everywhere, but nothing that takes real thought!!). have been thinking about your post, and all the changes you're making, and have to say i admire you - as much as you're still undecided on the IVF front, it sounds like you're making some amazing progress in getting the rest of your life the way you want it - and with a wedding in the not to distant future, you have a lot laid out before you. wishing you all the very best


as for me - well, we're in the middle of another IUI cycle - am currently 5days post IUI - and omg - i feel TERRIBLE!! am so tired, and have the worst upset tum - and i can't attribute it to anything in particular as the pregnyl boosters give similar side effects to early pg! how rude!!!! have started to develop a sore-ish throat and feel like i might have a bit of a head cold on it's way (very headachey), but then again, it might just be that i'm not feeling great just for today... went to chiro today to try to get on top of headaches - got told to go home to bed cos he'd "never seen me so feverish" - my cheeks were extremely red - but have calmed down this arvo... been very deydrated too. i think i'm just at that point of wanting to know - but of course, it's not that easy!!