I totally hear where you're coming from. I went to a 2 year old birthday party last week and a very large proportion of the mum's there with 2 yr olds were due to have another in the next few months. It's so hard!!!

The thing I try to hold at the forefront of my mind is something I read in the paper recently from a chinese accupuncturist who said that you should try to encourage into your life that which you seek or wish for yourself. Easier said than done sometimes, but I'm trying to work with that idea at present.