Thank you soooo much bella! It's nice to know that I'm not the only irrational female around!! Our clinic does offer counselling. I have been once, on my own of course, and was in tears during most of it! I'm at hollywood fertility (in perth) and it's one thing I haven't really enjoyed about the experience....I didn't like the counsellor - she spent most of the time telling me about the the stats and how IVF is better than IUI!!! Something i didn't really need to hear especially when it's your OB's decision to put us on IUI.........not mine!