Nic and Sue - thank you so much for your words of advice. They are really appreciated!!!! Nic I read your email to dh last night and finally...i think he may be starting to understand why I'm the way I am!!! I also watched the video you mentioned yesterday and i started crying as soon as the bloody music started!!!! What a wonderful movie. I'm actually going to send it through to some friends of mine. Again THANK YOU!!!!