Thast bloody awful Jane, tihs is not waht you need roght now I had a similar sitauation at ths starte of this year and ended up taking off 4 months unpaid leaev to conscentrate on "stuff".

They are lucky thgat you aresnt running off to a psychaologist asking for evdeicence to take unpaid stress leave!

I dont thikn youyr overreacting at all. I woudl be mad as hell.

If you can affortd to take the teime off, it did help me - obsviously not with ceonceivinbg but certaiunly with my mental/emotoinal gealth...