I think I know how you feel. With all the stress with my stim cycle last month, one of the things I was most concerned about was possibly leaving my colleagues in the lurch and creating additional problems (our office is always short staffed). When I mentioned this to one of my friends she said maybe I was worrying about the wrong thing…she was probably right but I couldn’t help it.

As it turned out, I only needed a day off for EPU and for ET, things went really smoothly and I'd worried a lot unnecessarily (but unfortunately ended with BFN).

But really, getting sick is just part of life – it’s always a possibility. It might not suit employers but it really doesn’t suit employees either - it just happens! You aren’t over reacting at all, I would be really disappointed if I got a reaction like that from my boss.

Good luck with your new cycle – I have everything crossed for you.