Thankyou ladies for saying that......You really all are my sounding boards with great advice.
We will just have to wait and see. Maybe its for the better and its just what my body needs..a break. Well Im trying to stay positive and bring the positive out of this negative situation.

Tigger.......OOOHHHHHHHH bad timing......We are moving that weekend...I wont be able to do anything except that.....I hope there will be another time that we can though...I am definetley keen to meet you.........will you let me know the next time you do....