Hey ladies - Thank you all for your lovely supportive comments and, most of all, your understanding. I don't think anyone who hasn't been through IVF really understands what it's like - apart from our partners, I suppose.

Jaki - You're right; we do have 11 snowbubs waiting for us. I'm going to call the clinic today and get the BT brought forward as I am now having serious spotting and just want to get it over and done with and stop the steroids and clexane injections. I've never done a frozen transfer so it will be all new to me. Hopefully it's not as invasive as a stim cycle.

Murraycod - Good to know I'm not the only one who is sensitive at kids parties. I had to buy the present this week, and here I was in Pumpkin Patch looking at little 000 jumpsuits with cute tigers and things on them and I had to stop myself from crying! Aaaagh. GL to you for your first cycle. It's a big learning curve but it's good to have a forum such as this to ask questions and get answers.

Emstar - I'm crossing my fingers for you babe. I think you've got lots of positive signs going for you. Hang in there. Good news that they've brought forward the BT!

BJ - Thanks for your support. Another one of us who sagely makes decisions to avoid children's parties Sometimes we just have to protect ourselves, hey?

Trubabe - I haven't looked at your link yet but will do so today. I absolutely love dogs and puppies (with their little puppy breath) and adorable. I am a ****er spaniel fan myself

Juniper - It's good that you can fit another cycle in before Xmas and before the changes to the safety net. I've never done an antagonist (short) cycle; always the long down reg which just goes on forever and a day. I just want the BT to confirm what I know already so I can get on with Xmas and start again in 2010. GL to you for this cycle!

Rob - GL for your scan on Monday. I am sure everything will be fine but totally understandable that you have concerns post the positive result. I know I would be the same; but then I am a bit of a worry wort!