Oh Vira, I am so sorry that you had to go through with that. I really ,really feel for you and can't imagine the anger and frustration you must be feeling. It is so hard to gear yourself up for a cycle and to have to deal with such a disappointment due to someone else's incompetance is unimaginable. Like you said, unforseen circumstances can arise, but this is their error and to not even show the slightest sign of empathy ......%@$#
Having said that, the discovery may get you one step closer to your dream. You WILL get there.
Hi lovely ladies,
Jasmin star, Seph, Taurean78,Daisee and Tantee-Thanks a lot for all your kind words and thoughts and honestly they mean a lot to me and made me fell looked after.
I am waiting for my FS to call me and say what the next move is going to be.I had imagined myslef to be a lot stronger than I am and this incident made me realise I am not, I had to struggle a lot the other day not to break down into tears in the tube train on my way home.
I am lot calmer now and and really admire the spirit of all you long term ttc ladies here and wish you all the best.
Taureen78-I agree with you 100% on how therapeutic it is to write down all your grievances and how much better you feel afterwards.
Vira - "Here here" as to what everyone else has said, and you have every right to rant, dont worry about that. I really feel for you having to go through that . That was disgusting of them, i think.
I hope you can combat the issue ASAP and all the best darlz.
I agree about writing a letter, my step-mum is a counsellor ( a very good one) and gets people to do that all the time - it helped me too with some issues.
Hi to everyone else and hope you are all getting that step closer to a BFP!
Thanks for your wishes and lovely support xo
Hi ladies - well, much to my dismay, i'm back in this thread, after having a recent miscarriage. It was so exciting to hear that we finally had a BFP, we were on a high for a few days, then you realise its still such a long road ahead. We were just wanting to hear the little h/beat at our 6 week scan, but it wasn't to be.
May not be around too often, but will pop in from time to time to see how everyone else is doing. Our next IVF clinic will be in October, so will be going through another egg collection cycle then, and hopefully end up with more to freeze than last time.
Not alot else to say, i'm feeling a bit *crap*, but wishing everyone the best.
theresep - I'm so sorry to hear of your miscarriage Although I have never had a BFP, I understand what you mean when you say that after your initial high, you realise just how far there is to go.
Know that you have our full support. Drop into the thread whenever you feel up to it. You will be in our thoughts whether you're posting or not.
Theresep - I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I can't even imagine how you are feeling right now. My heart and thoughts go out to you at this very difficult time.
AFM - I really need some moral support. I got an email this morning from a very good friend of mine informing me that she is 12 weeks pregnant and due at the end of January. As soon as I read the email, I almost burst into tears. I had to leave the office and go for a walk otherwise I would have been crying at work and I didn't want that (no-one at work knows we're TTC). I have no idea how I am supposed to be happy for my friend, when all I can think of is the fact that I'm not pregnant yet, and we've been trying for nearly a year and a half. My friend had been off the pill for a month (maybe two months), and she fell pregnant straight away. She also doesn't know that we're TTC. I feel like no-one understands what I'm going through except you girls. I think that almost EVERYONE I know who has kids or who is pregnant, fell pregnant either accidentally or straight away when they started TTC.
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!!!! Why can't I get pregnant.
So sorry for the ranting and raving, but I just feel like I can't talk to anyone about this. I sent my husband the email from my friend (we work in the same office), and he came looking for me because he knew I'd be upset about it. He's such a sweetie.
Thanks for letting me get that off my chest. I was hoping to get some support from you girls, because my other friends just wouldn't understand.
Wishes xoxo
Last edited by wishes; July 21st, 2009 at 05:09 PM.
Hi ladies. Sorry, I'm a bit out of the loop... There's always so much going on and I find it hard to follow.
Just a quick question: I know it's normal to O late after an IVF cycle, but is it normal to have a shortened LP. I'm only 11dpo but I feel like AF is knocking on the door. I think it's probably just the IVF last cycle messing me up (normally have a 14 day LP), but wanted to see what others think?
for all of us.
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