Thanks for the support,
It is hard to avoid this friend as she is my best friend and we have known each other for ever. She keeps telling me that the answer to everything is to exercise and everything will be fine. I know that the exercise will help and I am not making excuses but it is easy to say make time in your day for it. Like when. Those of you who have other children will get where i am coming from. She is about to start trying for a baby and she has this totally unrealistic idea of what it is like. She thinks that it will just sleep quietly in the corner and she can continue on with what she wants to do. Fat chance. She plans to put the kid in the creche everyday and go to the gym. Go luck to her. I didn't have my child/ren to put them in a creche for someone else to look after. Sorry for the vent but her lack of understanding and crap opinions have given me the willies, she is supposed to be my friend and support me through what ever,i think i will have to aviod her for a while because these feelings are not going to help either. Well i must go back to my spring cleaning after saying all that Ds is in day care today as it is usually a workday but i am on holidays so he still has to go or i pay for it anyway so I can clean without his help.
Look just ignore my rantings TL and Scooby hope your not feeling sick still and Af stays away. It is interesting reading your posts as i don't know very much about IVF it seems very involved and complicated.