Carla, my reply to you wasn't me having a go at you, I was asking for clarification as it wasn't clear (at the time) what you meant by the statement that I quoted. It seemed that me being a male made you feel uncomfortable, which I could perfectly understand if that was the case given the sorts of topics that are raised here. I then went on to have a bit of a general spiel about there being other blokes using BB, and the ways in which blokes can be involved in this kind of discussion.

I have re-read my post and can't see how any part of it was rude, nor can I see how in any way I suggested that you were less welcome here than anyone else. If that is your view then that is unfortunate. You are most welcome to share your story, and receive and offer advice just as the rest of us do. So good luck with the process, and I wish you every success for your current cycle.