hi Beau,

To answer your second question, I have done three FETs and all my embryos (four in all) have thawed and were transferred.

In answer to your first - does it get easier emotionally? - yes and no. I think the first few failures are very hard. I cried and cried. But then I think self protection kicks in and you don't get your hopes up so that by your 7th, 8th, 9th failed attempt you are kind of resigned to it. It's still upsetting of course but you don't have the same level of optimism as when you started. Usually you have already started planning your next cycle before you even get your official bfn.