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Last edited by onthefly; June 18th, 2010 at 02:37 PM.
Crafty-I know you must feel like absolute crap right now and we are here for you but remember what you said you will not give up so easily you gave yourself another year at least so that is a year of hope there are plenty of women who fall pregnant naturally at 45-46 and you could very well be one of them you said yourself your were pregnant not that long ago so you just need to catch that last good egg your hanging on to.
crafty- that must have been really hard to listen to, but there is still hope
saffy- it is so hard dealing with those who simply don't understand. I have had to distance myself from some friends as a result, just for self protection. Hope you are going OK. People who havent walked in our shoes often just dont get it. Sometimes it makes me upset, but also angry and frustrated.
this is such a busy thread...I will try and keep up with this new one and be able to respond with personals a bit better!
afm- did another HPT at 12dpo...still only one line. I am disappointed but OK, as we have only just resumed trying after all, and a miracle straight away would have been way too much to expect.
Crafty - I'm so sorry your appt with FS did not give you better news BUT you and I both know statistics are for other people! You have 8 children with "non existent, never going to get you pregnant in a million years" sperm and I'm UTD on just about the same amount so POO them. Your eggs were good enough just last september, not that long ago. The fact is it is possible you just have to believe in that possibility. You have defied the odds 8 times you can do it again. I do agree counselling might be useful, one to help you deal with the grief of the mc and also to help you through these current feelings which really come down to grief too.
Possums - I am hugely impressed that you managed a year off. I found it hard just taking a month off here and there. I really hope your patience pays off soon with a lovely strong BFP. It might not be far away.
Porsche - I hope your temp rises tomorrow. Good luck for your appt.
Saffy - I'm feeling okay thanks, bit tired (fell asleep at 7.30 last night!). Alice is right some people have NO clue how their word affect us. I was at a party once and we played 2 truths and a lie and this girl said she'd had 2 mc and that turned out to be her lie. I was so angry I had to go inside and calm down I wanted to just scream at her if you'd ever had a mc you would know it is not something to be so flippant about. Clueless!
AFM - I hope you girls don't mind me staying here for a while longer. I'm not ready to go to PAML. My January BFP only lasted 4 days so I know just how quickly things can change. Someone said in the last thread that I am being very Zen about this pg and that's kind of how I feel. It will last or not and that's not up to me and I feel strangely calm with that. I think the fact that I got to the point of being able to say that even with all the heart ache I am still glad I had all my angels, however briefly, has really helped.
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