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    well done THopes, you are a legend

    Congratulations on a well deserved BFP ( hope your team does as well today)




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    t-hopes-congratulations,so pleased for you....alice-are you feeling any better today?thinking of everyone...

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    Just popping in to say a big
    CONGRATULATIONS TO T-HOPES!!!!!
    I got goosebumps reading ur post! Am so happy for u.. i had a big feeling this was going to be ur month! Woohoo!
    Enjoy the game!!!!!
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    T-Hopes Congratualtions whoooo

    Yay for IUI. Wishing you a happy healthy beautiful pregnancy.

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    Alice- I am so sorry you had such a horrible time with your EPU. So much for me hoping you were not too sore!!! You poor sweetie. I hope you are now able to rest up and be happy with your 5 little eggies going well.

    AFM- Not feeling at all pg I'll be very surprised if it has worked.

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    CONGRATULATIONS T-HOPES

    well I did say so didn't I how I loved reading your post yay for you girl well done !!!!!

    Alice so sorry you have been in the wars shame you poor thing but try to relax and concentrate on those embies now !!!!

    AFM well BFN but I know its damn early I just realized its only day 9dpo so stupid move on my part but still got twinges in the old boobs every now and then can't figure it out why they sooo maybe I will test again next weds or thurs if no AF you never know !!!

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    Sunbeam: Every pregnancy is different. And it's very early days, you could get symptoms tomorrow or next week and that would still be ok.

    I'm such a stalker lately! I do miss you guys xo

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    Omg! Omg! Omg! Whooooo hoooo t-hopes way to go girl.

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    Morning everyone,

    T-hopes, I hope you had a great day yesterday (sorry your team lost though) reveling in your happy news! It's just what we needed here - it's been a while since we had a BFP to celebrate. Yah team!! Doesn't sound like that line can get much stronger but I guess you'll keep testing anyway. When is your IUI bt booked for? So your MIL can calm down now - no IVF for you!

    Sunbeam, I've never fallen pg naturally so I don't know how different that would be but I imagine the physical experience leading up to a BFP with IVF would be different simply because of all the interventions you've had along the way and the drug regime you've been on. It's too early to tell so try not to get disheartened because you really don't know yet. Take each day as it comes and keep sending that little embie all the sticky vibes you can. And if this cycle doesn't work (which I hope it does) you've got your other little embies on ice waiting for you and I'm sure one of them will be a winner. Stay positive lovely, I think the hardest thing with IVF is the mental strain it puts on you because you are aware of every stage whereas normally you wouldn't know until AF was due one way or the other. I don't know if this helps, sending you lots of love and lots of BFP vibes x

    Damprye and Reet, hi hope you are both doing well.

    Ferrals, I hope that cold has gone now and you are feeling better. So you have a scan this Tuesday, is that right? Will be thinking of you and hoping for the best.

    KitFaerie my lovely it is always so good to see your name! Thanks for stalking us! Hope Tiger is growing strong and you are enjoying your pg. This year has flown by, can't believe how far along you are now. Lots of love to you XX

    Crafty! Wasn't Luna telling everyone not to test too early??!! 9dpo gives you plenty of time for a BFP to show itself so hang in there. I hope the painful bbs is a good sign for you. Fingers crossed!

    Luna Can we congratulate you yet? Were you testing again today? Fingers crossed for you that you've got your BFP too - that would be fantastic news. Let us know soon!! (and yes, you are right, I probably would have been sadder if it had been canceled. The whole time I was in hospital I really thought it would be so glad it didn't).

    MatthewsMum, are you testing this morning too? How're you finding the acupuncture? I hope it is helping. It's been great to be home and getting lots of sleep and resting. Your DH sounds like a lovely man - made me a bit teary reading about the Christmas bauble. I love the idea and think I'm going to do it too.

    Saffy, did AF arrive? I hope she came and left quick smart. Are you going to do IVF again this cycle? I hope so, and I hope this time it all goes smoothly for you. Will be watching every step of the way and if things don't work out for me then we can be cycle buddies next time. x

    Intheslowlane - are you on holidays now? I hope it is a really relaxing time for you.

    India's Mum - took me a while to realise you had changed your name! I'm so sorry about your dog. I hope she is enjoying her time at the beach house - very sad but lovely thing to do for her. I will never forget having to do what is approaching for you with my cat Harriet. It was one of the saddest days of my life and I still miss her. Every now and then I see her out of the corner of my eye so I know they stay with us which is comforting. to you

    Clairsmummy, how are you?

    HappyBaby, Mildez, Porsche - sending you lots of love and hoping you are all doing well.

    AFM I have had two good nights of sleep so am feeling better. Still sore but obviously much better than I was before. I went for a gentle walk yesterday to try get my blood circulating after all those drugs and lying down in hospital. It felt good to move and I made sure I didn't overdo it. While I was out the embryologist rang and we have 4 grade 1s and the fifth one is only slighting behind the other 4. So that's good news. Last IVF we had five grade ones on Day 3 and by Day 5 we only had one grade 2 to transfer so I'm keeping my excitement in check as there can be big changes between day 3 and day 5. Just hoping DH's quitting smoking (it's been 10 weeks now) helped in time (acupuncturist said it takes 3 months to make a difference). So I'm cautiously optimistic. Transfer will be Monday. They are going to ring again today to give us our time and an update.

    On another note, it was weird that when we came home on Friday and were opening our mail, there was a letter from our FS to my GP with a summary of our mc from January and an update on our current cycle. In the letter it said that the bub we lost in January was a little boy. We didn't know so it was a bit of a surprise to hear. DH got a bit upset and I felt sad but OK with it. I like knowing and it makes it all seem more real than the "missed abortion" that was referred to at the time. So now I'm concentrating on the fact that last time we did IVF I fell pg with a little boy. I've always had an image in my mind of two babies - a little girl looking out at me and peeping out from behind her, a little boy. So maybe that was our boy and maybe our girls is on her way. I keep seeing a little hand on the palm of my hand and I'm holding onto that will all my might. Sorry for the long post - have a good day everyone xx

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    Alice - I am so gald you are feeling better and so glad your cycle was not cancelled. It's good to hear that your embies are doing well so far I hope they keep going strong for tomorrow's t/f. Thank you for your lovely words, I have been wondering the same thing about whether a BFP would feel differnet with all the IVF intervention but comparing to my other BFPs I'm still feeling nothing at all. I'm feeling pretty sad and sorry for myself. IVF is definitly the biggest roller coaster in this big TTC roller coaster of a journey, I am so in awe that you've done it 5 times! That is so beautiful what you said about seeing a little hand in yours. I have been meaning to ask my FS what gender my last bub was I feel the same, it makes it more real to know.

    India'smum - I'm so sorry about your dog, our pets are so important to us, some days my cat is the only thing that can make me smile, I can't imagine being without her. I hope you holiday away is beautiful and special.

    Hi everyone else I hope you are having a nice weekend, very grey and wet here on the Goldie.

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    hi everyone!

    thanks you ALL so much for the lovely well wishes! It feels quite surreal to see all of those 'congratulations' addressed to me! I dont know if its quite hit me yet! dh and i are both walking around in a daze!

    i tested again with the ebay cheapys and a first response and both significantly darker! so very happy to see it darkening! Im having my BT on wednesday and then again on friday so feeling a little nervous but just have to take it one day at a time... I think the best way to sum it up is that we a cautiously ecstatic, knowing only too well how quickly things can change. we have told both sets of parents and my sisters so its been wonderful seeing them so thrilled and i think they shed more tears than us!! We are just blown away that IUI worked 1st try! Cant believe how lucky we were, i thought we were in for the long haul! very blessed! I am a little worried though cause i feel like AF is coming having a lot of cramping today and its stressing me! If i hadnt have tested i would swear AF would be arriving tomorrow, oh please lord dont take it all away...

    Alice - so glad you have had some good nites sleep! and wonderful news on your embies! clever little ones! you must be so chuffed!! I got goose bumps reading about the images you have, so gorgeous! And its wonderful you found out that you were having a little boy... we tried to find out what our little one was but the ob only tested bubs for genetic problems, and not chromosomal.... I have everything crossed for you for tomorrow, you will be in my prayers... hope you have a wonderful nights sleep and everything goes perfect ! xx

    Mrs Crafty!!! Hang on a minute woman.... werent you tellin me the other day that 9dpo was too early to test!?! Your guilty!!! It IS too early and I am walking talking proof!!! hang in there!!!! xx

    sunbeam - YOu hang in there too love!! Dont give up hope! I did, well and truly, and look at me now!!! I would never have thought it was going to work!!! are you going to test or wait it out?

    kit - hi darlin! lovely to see you name in here! hope you and that cheeky little tiger are travelling well!!

    Reet - how are things with you?! great to hear from you!!! and thanks for stalking xx

    matthewsmum - have u tested or any sign of AF?

    saffy - hi love, you must be about CD3 today? Have you started your injections today??

    Dampyre - how are things with DP?

    Ferrals - thx!! so excited but still cant believe it!

    luna - any news? have you POAS again ?

    thanks again everyone for the messages! i hope so so so so so much that there are more BFP's in here within the next few days, weeks and mths!

    special love to you all xx

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    Alice-wednesday is my u/s

    Crafty/T-Hopes all my BFP were 9dpo except for abbi at 14 dpo so i am walking takling proof times 4 lol.

    Hi everyone not up for to much gossip soooooooooooooooo tired i have jusr worked 24 hrs out of the last 48 and i am stuffed.
    Hope everyone is well i am getting very nervous about wednesday so scared it will be another sick bub.

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    Ferrals, I was just lying on the lounge thinking about the day 3 vs day 5 thing and remembered your bub was a day 3 transfer and then was thinking about that study they just did on day 5 IVF bubs being more likely to be a boy...and thought maybe you're having a girl! Will you find out on Tuesday at the scan? You must be feeling so anxious about it. I'll be thinking of you and hanging to hear your news.

    Well, no update today so we'll just have to wait to tomorrow to see what we have now. Last time from 5 grade 1s we got 1 grade 2 so just hoping that we can do at least the same. The FS says the grading is more for the embryologists and that it doesn't seem to make any difference to the result - plenty of grade 3s go on to be BFPs and plenty of grade 1s fail so it's a bloody guessing game 100% of the way.

    T-hopes, I think I told you before I had such strong AF cramps the day of my pg test last year that I nearly didn't bother going down for it. It was a BFP. So hold on to the happy vibes girl, I know there's always going to be a doubt now but stay strong, we're here and we're all cheering for you x

    Sunbeam, sorry you are feeling so sad, it is a tough road and you're an incredibly strong woman to keep going and I hope more than anything your BFP is coming and you'll have a baby in your arms next July. Hopefully tomorrow I'll be in the TWW with you, we can go crazy together x

    Saffy, did you start injections??? What have I missed??

    Luna and MatthewsMum, were you both testing today?

    I did a big post earlier so have a good night everyone. I may not get back on until Tuesday but will let you know how I go tomorrow when I can x

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    Ferrals, we posted at the same time. Rest up and good luck for Wednesday.

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    Hi guys- I am too lazy to do a big post, I have just read everyone's news though so will get onto it tomorrow
    I have started the BCP again cos I got my AF 3 days ago, not sure when the jabbing starts, my clinic is annoying cos you have to wait to get in sync w everyone else, the nurses are ringing me tomorrow I think, so I will know more then!
    sorry its short, but hugs to everyone!!

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    Congrats T Hopes, awesome fabulous news darl.....woohoo.....nothing better than hearing about BFPs from women that have worked so hard to get them, hope your next 8 months fly by stress free for you darl.
    Alice- Thank you for asking how I am going, I'm feeling like I am in no mans land atm, I got my +ive OPK on CD12 so naturally I thought I would of O'd by now. I had a temp dip a couple of days later then a rise now it's back down again. I haven't been sleeping all that well but still get my full 3 hours before I wake and take my temp at the same time everyday. Before I got my +ive OPK I had O pain on my right side then I had it again 2 days later but yesterday and today I have had O pains on my left side. I have no idea whats going on with my body I really think I'm not O'ing like I should. Guess I will just have to wait and see what my blood tests results say on Friday when they come back. I still have very slippery clear CM and I have had that since CD12 as well.
    Hope everyone has had a great week end, it's my DDs 5th bday today so I have been slat out all day with entertaining 5 kids and feeding them all and making DDs bday cake, that she totally loved. We have all had a really great day but I can't help but get teary when I see my baby girl growing up so fast.

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    Alice-Have you heard any news yet? your doing a day 5 TF fingers crossed all goes well.

    Sunbeam-How are you doing i hope your holding up ok they put a healthy embryo in and like me you have no problem getting pregnant so i really think it will stick and stay for the 9mths this time.

    Hello to everyone i have missed.

    AFM-I need to keep up my pretend brave face it is going to be even harder to keep it up now we just found out my DH's step niece who is 17 unemployed and smokes lives at home and bludges off the government is pregnant and due 8 days before us the first thing that popped into my mind is what if our bub doesnt make it and i have to endure her pregnancy and birth just like i had to with my mole of a SIL who's baby was due 8 weeks after Abbi was due that was toture hearing all about it and the invites to the baby shower ect i cant do that again why do the undeserving people get pregnant and pop out healthy babies.
    This waiting is so hard and the uncertainty of what we are going to see on wednesday is very stressfull i hope it doesnt stress the baby.
    On the plus side i have a month off on long service leave yippee!!!

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    Clairesmummy - I can't really explain why your temp would not stay up after it dipped then rose that seems a bit odd but cd21 bt will say for definite whether you O'ed or not. Good luck.

    Ferrals - I have given up trying to understand why undeserving people get pg so easily and so frequently and then get a bunch of kids that they neglect and abuse it just goes to prove there is no order in the universe just chaos. As I said before I am convinced your bub is healthy but I can't imagine the stress you are feeling, or the relief you are going to feel on wedensday when you find out it is all fine. We will be just as excited as hearing about Dory's bub arriving. When does your leave start?

    I have a question for you (and Porsche if she's around). Did you feel differnt or later symptoms with your IVF pg than with your natural ones? I am now 5dp5dt and still feeling nothing. I had minor cramping for an hour on and off last night but no porno boobs which has always been my biggest sign. On the IVF success site I looked at almost all the women reported no symptoms so not sure what to expect. BFN this morning.

    Alice - How are your embies? When is your t/f?

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