Sunbeam- I am either 9 or 10 DPO, cos I'm not really sure when i o'd, maybe CD11 or 12- I only got ewcm on the sunday (CD11) thats the day we dtd thank god. I will try not to stress about AF coming- thanks.
Don't worry about missing this am, apparently the sperm has to already be in your tube waiting when you O ( I read that in a book) so its pointless doing anything after ovulating- I think your timing was great!