Thanks Saffy,

But I really dont hold out much hope. I used a FRER test with first morning urine. My boobs arent sore anymore. I am not tired (in other words, no real pg symptoms). When I rang my clinic the nurse seemed to agree with me that it was likely that the BFN would stick. She said - and I quote - "those home tests are pretty accurate".

She said I could go in on Monday or Tuesday (instead of Wednesday) for the BT.

Right now I am contemplating a few things -

-What did I do wrong? Was it the coffee I continued to drink? Was it the orgasm I had yesterday?(sorry if TMI) the bath i had two days after transfer?
-What now? Should I use the "less than perfect" frozen embie I have? Or start another fresh cycle.
- Should I ask for more tests to see if there is something else wrong with me? Should I have a lap? Will that help (never had one before)
- How can I keep this secret from DP? He didnt want me to test at all. He will be so upset about it not working. I feel so bad for letting him down.....I feel I have to hide this from him until the official testing day.
- Is my body just too old and broken and fat to conceive, no matter what assistance I get?

Sorry for the 'woe is me' post. This is my first IVF BFN. It hurts like f*ck.