Just a quick one from me. I had my BT this morning and the results are in.... and after nearly 4 years of TTC.... it's a BFP. Oh my goodness. I am in shock. This time 2 weeks ago I thought there was very little chance with just one out of five eggs fertilising. I don't know how to feel! I know I will be worrying until the scan, but for today I'm going to enjoy it.
Thank you to all you wonderful, inspiring ladies for all your support. It makes more than a world of difference to have people around you who know exactly what you are going through.
Tantee thats brilliant news congratulations im so so so happy for you good luck for the next 8 1/2 months, and yes the wait for the scan stinks it is an awful wait so enjoy every minute of every day
mindhugs im so sorry for what you are going through i have a friend who was doing ivf for 7 years and had miscarriage after miscarriage after miscarriage and sounds the same her body could or would not hold the baby past a certain time but she kept at it and kept seeing new dr who would try other things when most of the dr kept telling her that nothing would work she is at monash ivf not sure what dr i know its alady dr, anyway she is due to give birth in 3 weeks, she has no tubes after 2 ectopics and as i said countless miscarriages so please there is hope, i know how you must feel in the money side of thins it is so bl@#%#y expensive we were on our last try for a little while,
Again im so so so sorry for your loss, and will keep you and hubby in my thoughts
xoxoxox
Hello everyone! I'm new to this forum and I'm so excited to share my first ICSI journey with you all. Firstly let me say that my heart goes out to you Mindhugs. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. You sound like a strong woman and I wish you all the luck in future cycles. I also agree 100% with what you are saying about God working in mysterious ways. It angers me beyond words when I see mothers that don't appreciate their kids or pregnant druggies or people who didnt want kids in the first place falling pregant. It makes you think 'why is this happening to me?' It's not fair at all, but I guess what keeps me going is the fact that all the hard times we are going through at the moment will all pay off when we get to hold our beautiful babies in our arms.
Everyone is in my thoughts and I look forward to sharing this exciting, but at the same time difficult, journey in our lives. xx
Hi ladies congrats to those who have a BFP!!!! Mindhugs im so sorry to hear you lost your bub! I really feel for you. I lost my first pregnancy in june which was our 3rd cycle, i was only 5 weeks pregnant but god it hurt so much but strangely i pulled through really well, i cried and cried for about 3 days and then i had a strong will to get through and i did. I believe life is very unfair and that it seems the good always comes easy to alot of ppl that it shouldn't but i truly believe everything happens for a reason, like when i eventually hold mine and DH's baby we will love it and be so much more greatful because of everything we have been through. I also believe my IVF journey has given me alot, strength, maturity and i believe in my self so much more now then i ever have, you begin to realise the important things in life and how special they really are. I hope you and your DH are okay but know that its not over until you say it is, so keep fighting for your dream.xx
Im currently waiting for my 4th FET (natural cycle this time) transfer will most likely be next fri/sat but this is our last embie, im tyring acupuncture this cycle and im eating healthy and excercising. The thought of this one not working kills me, because i know it means a 6 month break to save up the money again for another STIM cycle But hopefully this will be lucky number 4! Goodluck to all ladies xx
congrats to those who have a BFP!!!! Mindhugs im so sorry to hear you lost your bub! I really feel for you. I lost my first pregnancy in june which was our 3rd cycle, i was only 5 weeks pregnant but god it hurt so much but strangely i pulled through really well, i cried and cried for about 3 days and then i had a strong will to get through and i did. I believe life is very unfair and that it seems the good always comes easy to alot of ppl that it shouldn't but i truly believe everything happens for a reason, like when i eventually hold mine and DH's baby we will love it and be so much more greatful because of everything we have been through. I also believe my IVF journey has given me alot, strength, maturity and i believe in my self so much more now then i ever have, you begin to realise the important things in life and how special they really are. I hope you and your DH are okay but know that its not over until you say it is, so keep fighting for your dream.xx
But hopefully this will be lucky number 4! Goodluck to all ladies xx
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