Hi ladies,

I'll try not to be so down today.

Porsche - your FS sounds like a #*%$head. I too would be feeling pretty lost and confused after a stuff-up like that. Sometimes I think that with the low success rates of ivf and fet's they must think they can just sit back, not do much then blame it all on bad luck. I don't know what it means for the rest of your cycle but I hope you can get back on track. (Sorry, I'm no help!) I know what you mean about being forced to BD too

Mindhugs - here's hoping your eggs all fertilise. How many eggs did they collect? (the terms all sound so awful don't they - sounds like we're chooks)

Loops - it's nice to 'see' you back here. You definitely sound like you're doing a bit better now.

Ferrals - hi - I've been lurking on your other thread too. It's been so long since I've done a full stim cycle so I can't shed any light on your numbers, sorry. Really hope this cycle is the one FX

Sarah - glad you've made your decisions and are embarking on this interesting journey once again. I've got a tough one to make myself now. I'll explain at the end.

Sorry to everyone else I've missed.

AFM - like I said, I've just had an unsuccessful FET cycle. I've spent most of the last 24 hours in tears, but now putting on the brave face and getting over it!

So, now of the 4 FET's I've done 3 have resulted in a really low Hcg at BT (the other one was great but mc at 8 weeks). So, now that there's a definite pattern emerging I'm wondering what to do next. Does anyone know anything about NK (natural Killer) cells? My FS mentioned that I could have a uterus biopsy to diagnose it. It just means paying lots of money as it'd be a day surgery thing and missing a month or two of TTC. Obviously I'd pay anything if it meant getting a baby but just wondered if it sounded like a likely thing to have in my situation. Can anyone shed any light???

I still haven't learnt the art of a brief reply on here!! Hope you're all having a lovely stress free day