Sararms - I am so sorry that you are feeling so low. I know it's hard not to, but blaming yourself when you lose a pregnancy is only going to make you feel awful and you don't know that it something your body did that made the pregnancy fail. Pregnancies fail for all sorts of reasons but it is easy for us as women to blame our selves in the absence of any other explanation. I hope that you and your DH take it easy and have some time to grive over this, it's a terrible blow. When I miscarried in '04 I had some time out from work and really took it easy and it did help. Good luck with your appointment at the end of the month and try not to be too hard on yourself

Good luck with your transfers Skye and Suzy

Mrs Mac - not long until Australia Day, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you

Leis - I am sorry about your news, I had a big lap a few years ago but not quite as big as yours is going to be and dont worry they give lots of morphine afterwards.

I hope everyone else is well.