bianeczka- big hugs for you, its never the result we want to get. I completely understand the feeling you get about finding out someone in the family is pregnant, Since we started TTC i have had my BIL + wife have 2 kids which were accidents, Then the other SIL + Husband only 18yr had an accident she then went and spent 3months away from her husband to be with her mum because she couldn't or didnt want to deal with a baby and the mother raised the baby for the first few months, Then to top it all off before the bub was even 1yr they went and got pregnant again on purpose. I was furious at this and still am as u can kinda tell because she still hasn't grown up and still cant handle being a mother to the one bub and goes home to mum every time she or bub is sick. Instead of staying at home and dealing with it like an adult. You want to be a wife and mother you need to grow up a little.


Sorry that this turned into a little rant lol. I think it is hard for anyone that is going through so much to have a baby to hear of anyone being pregnant even if you couldn't be happier for the person there is always something inside saying why wasn't it my turn,It doesn't make us selfish or rude or inappropriate it is just our feelings, and the amount of hormones racing through our body we can sometimes not choose our feelings lol...

But keep believing and your precious miracle will find you soon, believing is all we can really do when it is no longer in our hands.