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can't believe i'm back soooo soon, well back in my 3rd FET cylce, it's either going to be 3rd time lucky or not at all!!!! Final blood test monday.
A BIG hello to all the girls in this thread.... spending you all lots of Bubwishes and thinking of you always.
xx
Well, I'm so sad from the last thread that I don't even know what to say.
Bel, Janie, Smithy...words are not enough for me to say how I feel for you. I am dreading the next few days. To make matters worse, I seem to now have thrush and a possible UTI. I have felt horribly today both emotionally and physically, and almost became a Connex statistic as my train this morning became a sardine express and I nearly passed out. I had to exit two stops early becuase I just couldn't stand any more. I'm also starting to feel swollen again. Time to get more of the magic potion, I guess.
Janie, I know a great acupuncturist who works in South Yarra sometimes, but I can't PM you--maybe my membership doesn't allow it or I am too dense to figure it out. LEt me know if there's some other way to get you the details. I don't know if it's against forum rules to post it directly here.
I'm going to the GP in a few minutes, then coming home and straight to bed with me.
Hi Ladies,
Not sure if this is where we go once the other thread is closed. Well I had my BT today. The result was still the same which indicate ectopic. I was supposed to see the DR the afternoon but they said to cancel and make an appt for mon as I need another BT mon and may need an urgent appt after that. Well I was so upset that they told me to cancel my appt because I have so many questions. I am flying to melb on fri night for a weekend away with mum and when i told them that they told me I couldnt fly cos its too dangerous. As they werent giving me alot of info i said i was still going to fly. They spoke to the DR and he said it was ok as long as I was back on Mon and to have my BT and appt Tues. I had to pop in and get some pessaries cos I have to continue them. I am just so over this roller coster. Late this afternoon I had a phone call from the nurse who told me on Mon that they result was ok but could mc or double by today. She called tto see how I was going and if I saw the dr. I told her what happend and she is getting the dr to call me cos she thinks its unfair i didnt get to keep my appt when i wanted to. She was so georgeous. She said she had been thinking about me cos she when through something similar not long ago and she nows how hard that empty feeling is. It made my day to have someone understand!!!!
Well to all you ladies who got BFN's.....I am so sorry for you all. Next month is our month.
For those who are still to test, goodluck and I hope you get you BFP's.
Well I might pop in to check up on you all before Im off to Melb for a w/e of shopping. I wont have any news til tuesday although if you dont hear from me you will know its def ectopic and I am in hospital. Everything happens for a reason!!!!
Keep your chins up girls, only the best have to wait til last and once you all get to hold your babies you will all make great mums and treasure your baby. One day we will look back at these times and we wont remember the hurt anymore.
Thinking of you all
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hi girls just popped into say hi and see how all you girls are going. Karly i am Very concerned your dr is not seeing you ectopics are very serious and life threatening with mine i really didnt have any symptoms and when i forced the issue i got sent for a scan straight away and 2 hours later i was in the operating room and lost my tube as it was about to rupture. I really dont know if you should be going away and if you do be very wary of how your feelin the slightest twinge and id be off to the hospital, i dont mean to scare you but i cant believe the dr is being so easy going about it! Take care what ever you choose and if you have any questions send me a PM.
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so sad!!!
Oh no.. I am so sorry to have logged in this morning to hear so much bad news.. all the suffering you are all experiencing.. it's just awful... I know we all signed up for this journey (knowing it might not work), but you dont do it cos of the times it doesn't work!!! I found that previous times the reality of what you have had to endure to get this far really hits cos you had hope to carry you thro and when thats finally dashed it feels like there's nowhere to turn. Take care of yourselves.. thinking of you all
Its very good to hear that you do all (that I've read so far) have another something lined up, which is a very good thing to focus on. Take lots of care with you and your ectopic Karly. I hope you have a good but safe weekend away.
Are you still marching towards Friday BT Rustybeth?.. I am feeling so scared about mine.. hardly slept last night, think I was awake at 4ish.. Just dont know what to think again! I probably should have come on line to chat you would have all been awake.. I cant work out the times atall.. maybe its late night for you now.
Take care everyone .. thinking of you all xxxx
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Bel, Janie, Karly & Smithy. So sorry... hoping next month is the one for you all.
Welcome back Bubwishes. Best wishes for a speedy tww!
Good luck Rustybeth & Bellyjiggles for Friday. Hoping to see some positive news in here soon!
I'm one week down, one week to go. Trying not to think about it too much. Have had 2 injections of yucky pregnyl in the last week. Last one is tonight.
Hoping you're all doing ok.
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Hi all,
What a day of sad news in here.
Janie and Smithy- I am so terribly sorry for you both. You know that I feel your pain too right now. We just all have to stay strong and focused and keep moving forward. I'll be back in the LTTTC thread as soon as I get my head around everything, so I hope to keep chatting to you both there.
Karly- I also feel your pain as I've had an ectopic pg too. Unfortunately mine wasn't diagnosed until a lot later though. You are very lucky that we are so closely monitored through all of this and they have detected it early. You have such a wonderful attitude and seem to have such strength. I know you will get through this hurdle and will quickly be back on the TTC road. Please keep in contact with us when you can so we know how things are going. Have a wonderful weekend and look after yourself.
All my other friends, thankyou for your kindness as always. I'll check on you all tomorrow.
Hugs Bel
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