Luckystrike, Meredith, Tiggerlinda, hi...and thanks for those comments

Venus, welcome to the TWW and hope you have a BFP very soon!

as for me...just gave blood, now at work and waiting waiting. Don't feel optimistic as think I am experiencing AF (still cramping and bleeding) although my nurse said there is an outside chance it might be some kind of other 'first trimester bleeding' and to see what the blood test shows. Still everytime I cramp and go to the loo I feel depressed and worried right now. It's hard to imagine our lovely little embie could still be in there.
anyway, will know by lunchtime.