Sorry Desperately can't help with your ???? just wanted to agree with BG. People are well meaning and think that it is valuable advice they give, but if stress were a factor we would all be in serious trouble. How abnormal would you be if you did'nt stress. I am a major stress head as my nurse called me and plan on getting a BFP, I wish I could relax for more than a few seconds at a timeGood luck and don't worryJust joking!!!