My mum is the same but in a different way.
When I told her we were getting married she clearly pointed out she didn't want to be a grandmother and was happy if I had no children and shouldn't think I need to have them for her...gee thanks mum
When I was pregnant for the 1st time she told me how disappointed I was and we should abort...and now she spoils her grandson rotten!!
With my M/C's I always get "well it was for the best, its not like you wanted more"...although she never bothered to ask me if I wanted more.
I have a very strange relationship with my mum lol but such is life.
OMG I could never tell her we're TTC again...would never hear the end of it
I've always just tried to ignore it, keep things between DH and I. It can be very stressful when others are adding more and more stress to an already stressful situation...Hope things settle and she becomes are little more clued into and understanding of IVF
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