You're the example I gave him yesterday PZ, when we got the call. I told him about your miracle Isla, and your odds, and it perked him up a bit
I'm glad Hold your DH close, he is a very sweet man, much like my DF, and I saw how devistating an effect finding out the news was on DF. He felt every emotion you could imagine...up until then, the assumption was that it was all me with the fertility issues, as I was the one having all the invasive tests, I was the one charting, I was the one that was bedridden with every AF...he just assumed that that was enough bad luck, and that he would be fine It's a shock, for us too, but for them, because they want to be our protectors and providers...and when they can't protect us from the hurt, or provide us with a child, they feel very insecure. My DF did anyway.