thanks heaps for that bg

i think i will just leave it upto him, he knows i am on the pessaries and he asked me tonight on the phone how things were going and i told him all the gross details hehehe, so if he still wants to dtd after hearing all about it then i suppose its something that might not worry him.

mind you if i were a man i dont think i would want to go there lol it feels gross from my side of the fence and i am a woman, i couldnt image what it would feel like if i were a man, but with any luck it wont bother him, and like you said if it does then there are always things i can do for him instead

i suppose will have to see what happens when the time comes, at least i dont have to worry about it for another 4 nights cos dp is away working

thanks again for your reply bg